One year later, search for EKU student continues
FEW LEADS EMERGE AFTER 23-YEAR-OLD DISAPPEARED IN INDIANAPOLIS
By Cassondra Kirby And Peter Mathews
HERALD-LEADER STAFF WRITERS
Posted on Wed, Jul. 06, 2005
Kendra Skidmore remembers the last time she saw her baby sister.
Skidmore was leaving for the airport after a short visit with her family in Indiana.
"I said 'I love you, Molly' and she flashed me this big smile," she said. "I'll never forget that."
But no one has seen or heard from Molly Dattilo since she disappeared a year ago today. Skidmore said she doesn't think she'll ever see her sister's heart-warming smile.
"It's hard to have hope after this amount of time," Skidmore said. "I miss not knowing she's doing OK and things are fine. I wish I could turn back the time, but I just can't."
Dattilo, a Madison, Ind. native was scheduled to graduate last fall from Eastern Kentucky University, where she was a standout track athlete. The 23-year-old disappeared last July while attending summer classes at Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis. She was reportedly last seen walking to apply for a job at a Wendy's in the city, about a quarter of a mile from her brother's apartment, where she was staying.
Detective Catherine Byron, with the Marion County Sheriff's Department in Indiana, said police are actively investigating Dattilo's disappearance as a missing person's case. But investigators don't seem to be any closer to finding Dattilo, baffling her family.
An anonymous donor has put up a $100,000 reward through March 31, 2006 for her discovery and the arrest and conviction of the person or persons responsible.
An earlier reward of $10,000 offered by Dattilo's parents, Fred and Cherie of Madison, Ind., in cooperation with the Community United Effort Center for Missing Persons of Wilmington, N.C., expired last March.
Byron said the department will continue to work on the case as long as there are leads. Police receive tips regularly but none have led to a break in the case.
A sweet-spirited girl
Dattilo's teammates have described her as friendly and trusting, particularly toward strangers.
While Indiana police have spent their time poring over evidence and chasing leads, EKU students have held a walk-athon, offered prayers and kept her story alive through the university's student newspaper, The Eastern Progress. In Indiana, a 24-hour community prayer vigil is planned today at the Christ Episcopal Church in Madison.
Although more than a year has passed since members of the EKU community have seen Dattilo running around the school's track or studying in the locker room as she often did before track meets or practice, she is not forgotten, head coach Rick Erdmann said.
"It's always there," he said. "It's something that doesn't leave."
Teammate Angie Lee sent a letter to Dattilo's family, speaking of the memories of Dattilo she said she will carry with her throughout life.
Dattilo, who had plans of auditioning for American Idol, had a "beautiful singing voice," Lee wrote.
"We'd often hear that as we ran. She was likely to break out in song and dance on the track or at a meet."
Lee wrote about Dattilo's "compassionate heart" and how the team could always count on her for a laugh when they were down.
"Everyone knew her bright smile and outgoing spirit," she wrote. "She never seemed to meet a stranger and anyone who's ever met her will not easily forget it."
Still searching
Officials from the Marion County Sheriff's Department in Indiana said they have no evidence of foul play and that they haven't found any credible leads to her whereabouts.
But Dattilo's family said she wouldn't have just left without her car, cell phone, contact-lens solution and driver's license. And there hasn't been any activity on her bank account since she disappeared.
"Nothing else makes sense, she was either taken against her will or foul play was involved," Skidmore said.
Dattilo, the youngest of nine children, also attended classes at Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis the day she disappeared, dropping one class on that day.
Byron said she believes there is "someone out there that has information about Molly's whereabouts."
"I hope that person or persons come forward," she said.
But without evidence that a crime has occurred and the mounting number of caseloads -- 3,500 people were reported missing last year in Marion County alone -- manpower devoted to Dattilo's case has been limited.
"I feel that we may not be any closer to location than when we started the search," said Celestra Hoffman, an older sister.
To aid the search, the Dattilo family has hired private investigators, placed flyers from Indianapolis to the West Coast, offered cash rewards for information leading to her whereabouts, canvassed truck stops and conducted searches at the Westside apartment complex in Indiana and two nearby ponds.
They also placed a story of her disappearance on the America's Most Wanted Web site and on Fox News.
But Dattilo's family wonders why Molly's disappearance hasn't attracted national media attention.
"It's not like the Aruba case," said Skidmore, referring to the recent disappearance in Aruba of Natalee Holloway, 18, an Alabama college student. "Sometimes we have to create that attention."
Hoping for the best
The family remains hopeful.
"Mom has a lot of faith, she has a lot of hope that something will come about," Skidmore said. "My dad is probably a little more sad. Obviously, after all of this time, you have to face the possibility that she's no longer alive."
Statistically, the chances of finding Dattilo alive are grim, said Kym Pasqualini, chief executive officer of the National Center for Missing Adults. But the family should maintain hope, she said.
"Once a person is missing for that period of time ... safety becomes more of a concern," said Pasqualini, who has been in the business for 11 years.
She said Dattilo is one of 47,000 missing people listed on the Arizona-based organization's Web site.
But no matter what the chances, Erdmann said the EKU community looks toward the day when the "high-spirited young lady" comes home.
He said professors and other EKU officials ask him regularly for updates on Dattilo, an honor student.
"I think in all of our minds we just sort of hope she's out West somewhere," he said. "We just keep our fingers crossed and hope for the best."
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