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Families of missing adults left to wonder and worry
Thursday, June 1, 2006
By KEVIN PARKS
ThisWeek Staff Writer
Randy Shaffer didn't let himself think about what he was doing, he just did it.
Reaching down into the rushing waters of the Olentangy River, he was hoping against hope not to find what he was seeking: the dead body of his missing son, Ohio State University medical student and Pickerington High School graduate Brian Shaffer.
An insistent psychic kept calling the worried father, saying she was troubled by visions of the missing 27-year-old man's body trapped against one of the supports for the West Fifth Avenue bridge.
In the end, Randy Shaffer, of Baltimore in Fairfield County, couldn't not go to check for himself. His brother went along to help in the grim task.
Standing on the riverbank, his eyes filling with tears, on hand in case of an emergency, was Kevin J. Miles, volunteer president of Central Ohio Crime Stoppers Inc.
"I met with the father Sunday morning (May 7) and we decided we were going to wade the water," Miles recalled. "The father and (his) brother got these waders. I didn't go in the water, but I remember tears in my eyes watching this father frantically searching under all these big cement things, sticking his hands down because of what this psychic had said. It upset me, of course, this father trying to find his son.
"I was happy that I had the opportunity to help. I wasn't happy I was there ... "
Nothing turned up in the search, keeping hope alive, and worry, as well.
"I literally checked every single column that was under the Fifth Avenue bridge," Randy Shaffer said. "There is no way that Brian could be in that river at that spot.
"Yes, it would have torn me up to find my son, but I didn't think of that."
Brian Shaffer was last seen April 1 at the Ugly Tuna Saloona near campus. He did not, his father insists, just walk away.
"My son is not here because of something that happened," Randy Shaffer said with conviction.
Brian was headed to Florida, his father said, taking a vacation with a young woman he loves and planned to marry. Brian's bags were packed. The plane tickets had been purchased.
"He was all ready to go," Randy Shaffer said.
Now he's just plain gone.
For Randy Shaffer it's been two months since his son vanished.
For Jackie Zapert of the Northland area, it's been almost 10 years since son Rob Mohney disappeared. Every time she hears reports of another parent whose adult son or daughter is missing, her heart goes out to them.
"I absolutely know what their feeling is," Zapert said. "At the very beginning it's a terrible thing, a horrible thing. Your child is always your child.
"Once you've had something like this happen to your family, the impact was very great. I guess I always thought, too, when crime happens that this person was probably a criminal or did something wrong. It was the kind of thing that would never happen to you or anyone in your family."
Rob Mohney was last seen at the wheel of his red Pontiac Firebird in Westerville on July 16, 1996.
Since then, nothing.
"He was not a person who, number one, would not show up to work or not call in if he was sick or something," Zapert said. "He would not worry his family, absolutely would not have done that. From the very beginning it just didn't feel right."
It hasn't felt right for nearly a decade now.
"You're just in limbo," Jackie Zapert said. "It has been such a long time that I seriously know that Rob isn't coming back, and yet without a body being found or some kind of closure on this there's always that slight chance that everybody's wrong and that he would come back."
For the Luzio family of Powell, the one-year anniversary of the disappearance of Anthony J. Luzio Jr. is coming up July 4.
"It's been horrendous for us, the family," said his father, Anthony J. Luzio Sr., a sergeant with the Columbus Division of Police. "I guess it's a pain that's always there, every day, all through the day. You just kind of learn to live with it.
"The emotions come to the front and you just kind of learn to control them so you can get through the day."
Sgt. Luzio has heard from people who say Anthony Jr. just walked away.
"He may have," the cop admitted. "I'm not saying 100 percent that he didn't."
But in his heart of hearts, in his gut, Luzio knows something bad happened to his son.
"You look at the history and it's just not there," Luzio said.
The sergeant used to think that not knowing what happened to a son or daughter would be worse than learning the young man or young woman was dead.
Now, he's not so sure.
Uncertainty admits at least the slim possibility of hope.
The parents of missing adults find themselves in the peculiar and uncomfortable position of hoping their son or daughter is being cruel, heartless, selfish, that they have just walked away from the life they were leading and the people who loved them.
They have to believe that because the alternative is unthinkable.
Because his heart went out to people in such anguish, Kevin Miles on July 19 of last year launched a Web site devoted to missing adults under the auspices of Crime Stoppers. The site,
www.ohiomissingadults.com, came about after Sally Sheasby convinced Miles that her son, Mount Vernon resident Jonathan "JC" Sheasby, was the victim of foul play.
"I sat down and talked with her and her husband. I'm not a detective, I do understand that, but I just knew that this mother knew something was wrong," Miles said.
JC Sheasby vanished from his apartment on March 21, 2005. According to Miles, it was 68 days later before police in Mount Vernon agreed to look into the disappearance.
The 30-year-old man's body was found 86 days after he was last seen alive. In January, a Mount Vernon man serving a short prison term for grand theft was charged with Sheasby's murder, allegedly to keep him from testifying in another criminal case.
As a result of the reward posted by the Sheasby family on the Central Ohio Crime Stoppers Web site prior to the body being found, the families of other missing adults began contacting the nonprofit organization.
Many of them, Miles said, were deeply frustrated.
"We got involved and we started having all these other families calling me, saying, 'Look, my son, my daughter is missing,' " he said. "I was getting phone calls from all over the place. I went to see if there was a Web site or something that you could see how many people, and there wasn't. There was nothing for a family to do.
"What do you do when your son or daughter is missing?"
Ohio currently has approximately 900 missing adults.
Nationwide, according to a spokeswoman for the FBI's National Crime Information Center in Clarksburg, W.Va., as of May 1 there were 50,177 active cases of missing adults.
The response to the Ohio Missing Adults Web site has been so strong, according to the Crime Stoppers president, that the Ohio Attorney General's office is adding a missing adults component to Ohio Missing Children Clearinghouse.
"There is a federal initiative to increase the training and awareness about missing adults," said Brent L. Currence, director of the Ohio Missing Children Clearinghouse. "Missing children causes and initiatives have really been going on since 1979 ... and I see the missing adult initiative starting off much the same way."
By the same token, Currence admitted, there is some reluctance on the part of law enforcement officials to thoroughly investigate all reports of missing persons over 18 years of age.
"An adult can go missing if they want to," Currence said.
"It's easy to disappear," said Detective Gerald E. Milner, Crime Stoppers coordinator for the Columbus Division of Police. "It just depends on if you are willing to stop using credit cards. Some people are more dependent on credit and trackable accounts than others.
"If you're a person who can go out and get a job as a handyman and just work under the table, of course you're going to be very difficult to track if you don't want to be tracked."
According to Currence, of the Attorney General's office, people in law enforcement circles who were contacted for comment on proposed legislation dealing with missing adults estimated that between 60 and 75 percent of reported cases involve someone leaving of his or her own volition.
"When there are flags that are present that should cause alarm, that's kind of how the legislation is being geared," Currence said.
The flags all seemed to be there when the family of 21-year-old Grove City resident Hiroshi "Hiro" Hayashi reported him missing on May 11. Crime Stoppers sent out a media advisory. His family waited and worried.
Then, five days later, the Ohio State University student turned up in Athens, Tenn. He initially claimed to have been abducted, but later admitted that wasn't true.
He was charged with filing a false report and was allowed to return to Ohio, where his parents are reportedly getting him a psychiatric evaluation.
"The good news is that he was not found dead, but we have other families that would like to switch places," Kevin Miles said. "There's a lot of bad news out there for other families. One bad apple shouldn't spoil it for all.
"We don't stop responding because it's a false alarm. We have to make sure we're available for the real thing."
The Hayashi case moved Dispatch editor Benjamin J. Marrison to write a column about the difficulty newspapers have when it comes to writing about missing adults.
"The Hayashi story illustrates just how challenging it is to determine the newsworthiness of a missing-person case," Marrison wrote in the piece that ran May 21. "Cases like this make newspapers reluctant to jump on every one.
"Hayashi's case is a perfect example of why we avoid such stories," the editor added.
Law enforcement officials likewise face a dilemma when it comes to missing adults, according to Officer Milner.
"A lot of times," he said. "the challenges are where do you put your time and your efforts.
"If you don't have an organization like (Crime Stoppers) that has volunteer citizens willing to do this, this is not going to be done because the public is going to ask, 'Well, this person who's been murdered is definitely murdered, this person who's been raped is definitely raped, this person who's been robbed is definitely robbed.' They're going to begin to pull their paid law enforcement back into what they feel are 'definites,' so I think that there's just no doubt that you have to have the support for an organization that has individuals willing to come in, willing to give their time to do things that fill in the gaps where law enforcement ends and the families begin."
"Families know," Kevin Miles said with certainty.
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